‘Less than a month in they couldn’t afford to pay me and had to let me go’: 30-year-old woman fired and left unemployed for 4 months after she accepts friend’s offer to leave her steady years-long workplace and come work with her

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Jan 31, 2025 9:00 AM EST

After four years of sticking it out in a stable-enough job with steady-enough pay, life threw a curveball in the form of your boyfriend's friend. "You should join my company!" the friend said. And why not go for it? what's wrong with becoming a budding entrepreneur, not by choice, but by circumstance? 

Less than a month in, the company pulls the rug out from under you. "We can't pay you," they say. Classic move. Fast forward four months, and our once confident career climber is stuck in the valley of unemployment. Her days are filled with rejected applications, ghosted interviews, and the constant, nagging question: "How are you still unemployed?" As if she's been lounging on a beach instead of frantically trying to secure a paycheck.

Now she's caught in the classic catch-22 of job hunting: too qualified for some positions, apparently not qualified enough for others. It's like being told you're simultaneously too tall and too short for the same roller coaster. Make it make sense, corporate America!

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    "If it weren't for her, I'd still have my old job"
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  • But hey, at least she can say she tried, right? In a world that constantly preaches "take risks" and "follow your dreams," she did exactly that. She just forgot to read the fine print that said, "Results may vary, and by 'vary,' we mean 'potentially destroy your entire life.'"

  • Sure, it stings, but it also means you’re still in the game. Keep honing that resilient spirit! Your comeback story is just waiting to be written—complete with a few laughs about this chaotic chapter. After all, every entrepreneurial journey has its ups, downs, and plenty of “What was I thinking?” moments.

  • I had a stable job for four years with a decent salary, and I was fine with it. One day, my boyfriend's friend told me I should join her company if I wanted higher pay, constant
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  • travel, and a job I'd love. She hyped it up so much that I ended up quitting and started working with her.
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  • Less than a month in, my employer said they couldn't afford to pay me and had to let me go. I found another job, but after just nine days, I was fired— apparently, I didn't learn fast enough, and I stood up for myself when my boss kept yelling at me.
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  • Now, I've been unemployed for four months. My confidence is gone I feel like I'm not capable of anything. I keep applying for jobs, but I either get rejected for
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  • being overqualified (since I have a degree) or I get overwhelmed with fear, convinced I'm not good enough. Even though I always give my best, I keep getting turned down.
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  • I need to pay rent, and I'm out of money. People keep asking how I'm still unemployed. Even in interviews, they question why I haven't worked for four months, as if it's hard to believe the job
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  • market is tough. I make it to the final rounds, do the tests, and interview well, but in the end, they always choose someone else. How much longer can this go on?
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  • Maybe my boyfriend's friend isn't to blame, but deep down, I know that if it weren't for her, I'd still have my old job, a steady income, and peace of mind. Instead, I'm struggling. And at 30, I'm not exactly young anymore.
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  • JaimeLW1963 A similar thing happened to me many, many years ago, I am 61 now and even though my salary isn't the best it does pay my bills and overall I like my job. I
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  • worked for the post office and would be retired now if I had stayed, grass is always greener in the other side of the fence, but you have to move on. I don't know what
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  • your career was prior to this but you have to keep moving. The problem is if you don't have enough experience they won't hire you and if you are over
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  • qualified they won't hire you! It s ks for sure but you have to keep applying. Can you collect unemployment? I wish I had the answer for you, just
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  • know I was 51 when the company I currently work for hired me for a physical job, this is harder as a female but it's never too late- to get employed.
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  • Europeln3 YearsPlease Unfortunately the job market is bad as you said. You aren't doing anything wrong, in fact you are getting interviews and making it to final rounds which means your qualifications are good.
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  • Again, unfortunately since the job market is so bad there is a lot of competition. Im reality there will always be someone better than you. It's just whether that person sees the position and applies at the same time you do. Think about it, there's billions of people on the planet and a whole bunch
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  • of them went to college and got degrees and certifications and whatnot. It's unrealistic to assume you are the only one with your exact credentials. It's a sucky realization but it's humbling and if you keep at it, eventually you will luck our and be the one whose
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  • better than the current round of applicants for that job. Also you are likely a woman (assumption) and there is a lot of sexism in hiring and unconscious bias anyway. All you can do is keep going. Perhaps look into getting
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  • another certification while you continue the search. If you are applying to jobs that don't need a degree - take your degree off. Fast food and etc don't want to hire educated talent since they know you are there temporarily.
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  • Lastly, this is a hard one as most can't do this but next time you - get your stable job, build up at least a years worth of an emergency fund to cover your bare minimum expenses. Honestly it should be 2 years as lots of people with experience are going
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  • on almost 2 years in this job market trying to find a job. It's key regardless if you try something new or not that you build up that fund to have that backup and peace of mind. Stuff like this will happen again in the future and you want to be prepared.
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  • kao923 You are still young and really at a great age. You had a stable job and will find it again. Leave the past in the rear view!!
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  • 7625607 2h ago The job market is terrible. Don't take it personally when someone asks why you're "still" unemployed. They have their head in the sand.
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  • A third of the jobs posted online on various sites do not represent actual jobs. Companies want to appear to be doing well, and fake job ads. Or the company posted an ad to try to convince overworked employees that there will be some relief soon in the form of additional staff. Or it's just a scam that looks like a job ad.
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